It's time for a Friday night update on my life. Why? Because I am still testing the hypothesis that blogging makes me happy. So far it has been another fairly good set of weeks, but it is sort of difficult to tell if this is because of the blogging or the talking to people or what, because I don't really want to do the sort of controlled experiments necessary where I try weeks without any of the coping mechanisms to use as a control, so I am really trying to go with the methods where I throw all the new coping techniques or correlations up at once and try to maintain all of them if at all possible. But mostly right now I am working on the blogging regularly part. So I'm going to give an update on my life in list form, because list-format makes sense and is good.
(1) Told my roommate I was autistic. Mostly happened in passing in a conversation we were having about how we were good at teaching. That was fairly uneventful. Pretty much she asked, "really" to see if it was a figure of speech or not and I said "yup. for reals." and then we continued our conversation.
(2) Also finally told my roommate about how I prefer text-based communication a lot of the time. So that if I am seeming quiet or non-communicative (because she said she was worried that I don't talk enough) that she should try g-chatting me or something. Because I looovvvee g-chat. I am very talkative and friendly through g-chat almost always, even when I am non communicative verbally. And that also went well, I think.
|Yes, I will go play with animals all break.|
(3) When this lease is up in August, I am moving. And I am getting a pet. Hopefully a dog (I just need to work out a few details about Christmas, but boyfriend and family live in Chicago, so hopefully they can watch it) so I can go on walks and cuddle and because I love dogs, but if not, at least something adorable and furry and lovely.
(4) It's spring break so I am going home to California! And I am going to go see these beauties. And also the sun. And warmth.
(5) It's also finally starting to get warm here again. I can go outside without my parka. (Still wearing a coat, but not my giant, knee-length puffy coat!) Spring is coming. And spring means daffodils and tulips, which are my favorite flowers.
(1) My computer is dying, so that is no good. It decided to quit on me all night yesterday which is of course just what you want the day before the end-of-rotation presentation. So that presentation went not-all-that-great, as I hadn't been able to practice it, but I didn't actually cry during the presentation, and I bribed everyone with brownies that I made the night before, since I had a lot of time since I couldn't work on my presentation with a nonfunctional computer... It hasn't made funny noises since my presentation, though, so maybe it has decided to improve. I know they have limited life spans, and this one is 5 years old, almost, but I don't want to have to replace it. Also computers are expensive.
(2) My curtains hate me. I swear that they have a conspiracy designed to drive me into a non-functional state of rage. (That hasn't actually happened, but that is just because I am smarter than my curtains. It's close, because they are pretty tricky, but I think I am winning just slightly.) So my curtains actually spend a lot of time on the floor.
|Why yes, this happens every time I try to|
put my curtains up or take them down.
I think they technically aren't curtains, but are shades or something like that, but that is probably a mostly-irrelevant piece of data.
Also, they are luckily close to my bed, so I can climb on my bed and the window to put them up every night when I go to sleep. But it is still super frustrating and also I am climbing on windowsills while sleepy a lot, which is not the best idea.
(3) I'm 23 now, so I'm technically too old to be on my parents car insurance anymore, so I am going to have to either stop having a car (which I could do. I don't really need a car, but it is nice having one) or pay for car insurance myself soon once the insurance company realizes that I am too old. And that adds even more costs onto having a car I don't really need but that makes my life a lot easier to the point where I am almost not sure I can justify it.
(4) I have to do taxes soon... or have boyfriend do taxes soon, at least, and this year I have to pay taxes instead of getting a refund, because my graduate school stipend won't take the taxes out directly like most jobs (and they also only pay us 4x a year, which is stressful because you have to manage money well throughout those three months because you don't get paid all that frequently.) So I am going to have to write big checks to the government, and that is no fun.
The neither-good-nor-bad, but just things that have been happening:
(1) 2048 is the best and worst game ever. I want to play it all the time. But I discovered it during finals/presentation week.
(2) I am not tired because I took a 4 hour nap today (which was good). But now it is 1:30 and I am still awake (which is bad). But tomorrow is a Saturday so it doesn't matter too much.
I'm getting through pretty well right now, overall. The goods outweigh the bads, generally, at this time. (Admittedly, at this moment, my computer has also decided that it is going to function and has been for a while, so that is a big plus. Probably currently the biggest factor in my happiness is my computer's inconsistent behavior.)
Well, that's all that's really happening here.
Labels: adventures in apartment living, asperger's, autism, autistic?, friends, grad school, Random